fix(adapters): stable sort order, npm/local icons, reinstall dialog, HMR polling on WSL

- Sort GET /api/adapters alphabetically by type (reload no longer shuffles)
- Show red Package icon for npm adapters, amber FolderOpen for local path
- Add reinstall confirmation dialog with current vs latest npm version
- Enable Vite polling when running on /mnt/ (WSL inotify doesn't work on NTFS)

server/src/routes/adapters.ts

@@ -175,7 +175,7 @@ export function adapterRoutes() {
 
     const result: AdapterInfo[] = registeredAdapters.map((adapter) =>
       buildAdapterInfo(adapter, externalRecords.get(adapter.type), disabledSet),
-    );
+    ).sort((a, b) => a.type.localeCompare(b.type));
 
     res.json(result);
   });